Living together is a huge step in a relationship. The concept of live-in is still frowned upon in India, though on the rise. Still, let's talk about how the couple can surprise each other in different ways. A relationship is like a tree which has to be watered and nourished for growth. Similarly, if you are in a relationship, surprises, show of affection and love are what nurture the relationship. We agree that you guys are in love and everything is perfect but to keep it that way, you have to throw in the surprises which are an indicator that how important this relationship is to you. These little nuggets of happiness that you throw their way filled with love and joy is what keeps the relationship fresh. And above all, who doesn't love surprises? As we grow up, not a lot of people pamper us and we are dependent on our partner for that shower of love. So don't hesitate, take the first step and surprise your live-in partner with these 5 brilliant ideas.
1. Early morning surprises
Most of the couples divide their responsibilities. Maybe one of them goes out on work and the other does the house chores or maybe both are working professionals and help each other at the home. By chance, if you have a holiday or you want to surprise your better half, you can go for the early morning surprises. Wake up before the other one, and quietly make a coffee or tea. You can also put their favourite song on the music system and wake them to it. Even better, if you could learn to play their favourite song and wake them up to those sassy tunes. Make some breakfast like scrambled egg and present it to them. There are a million ways to surprise your partner in the morning by making their work easy and pampering them at the start of the day. Make her feel like she is in a couple friendly hotel where all the service is being done on time and to her liking just like it happened on your last vacation. Their whole day would turn out to be a great one following your little act of love.
2. Nudge of Love
It is possible that you both are away in the day. Both of you might be working or one may be staying at home. You could ping them when they would least expect and a text full of love and kisses would certainly bring a smile to your partners face. They would get anxious to meet you at the end of the day and your evening might get a lot happier. It also shows that you never forget them when while being indulged in work and only they are at the top of your mind every moment. You may send a text, a video, an audio clip or a photo; a memory of you two or just a sweet selfie. You may even change their wallpaper and put your picture on it. It would be really a romantic surprise for your partner and certainly, bring a smile to their face.
3. Plan for the evening retreat
Remember the days when you first moved in together. You both would plan things daily and have a blast almost every day. As time passes by, couples tend to forget or lose that temperament. Daily you do the same monotonous work and it is really boring. If you see your partner comes at the end of the day after a tiring day, you can plan an evening retreat to take him by surprise. Book a table to their favorite restaurant, take them to the movies or book a room in a nearby couple friendly hotel. You can also slip a handwritten love letter with cheesy lines to make him laugh and forget all the work-related issues. You can even take them shopping and buy something that they might have told you someday. You can also plan for an activity that your partner loves and you hate or maybe don't like such as shopping, watching football, playing video games etc. Such cute surprises could really make your partners day end on a high note and would really spice up the romance.
4. Surprise Vacations
The best way to surprise your partner is to finally book the tickets to your dream destination. The daily life gets very boring at times and we run out of things to do. That is the best time to visit someplace that has been on your bucket list. Slip the plane tickets on his work desk or in his bag for that special place where your partner has always wished to go and turn things exciting again. You may also book the tickets to a concert your partner might have talked to you about. Book the entire itinerary in advance; the hotel rooms, plane tickets, sightseeing tour to avoid any last minute hassle and so that the vacation is about you both and not the crappy situation you got into due to last minute plans. Do check for couple friendly hotels or hotels for unmarried couples to avoid any problem.
5. Romantic date nights
The best way to surprise your partner would be a well-planned date night. You don't need to go anywhere or book anything. Just a little bit of creativity and insight into your partners likes and dislikes would be enough to surprise him and make his eyes pop out of happiness. You can take a cue from the way your last couple friendly hotel room was decorated; dim lit lamps, LED strips. Get your partners favourite dinner from their preferred place or you may even cook what they love. Plan a candlelight dinner and wear that sassy dress or that playful attire that would surely take him by surprise. Your partner would certainly love your presence amidst all of this in the comfort of your own house.
There are numerous ways to surprise your partner and the best judge could be you. You have been with them for a long time now and you know what are his preferences. Try and be a bit creative to sweep your partner off their feet and they will surely love you for it. Such surprises are very essential for a relationship and act as a fodder. Remember you have to be giving in nature to get all the love. If you are the one who takes a step forward selflessly, your partner would certainly take two steps towards you and it will only strengthen your bond. So try proven ways to surprise your partner and reap the benefits.
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